Well been a weird day today is the day my dad died 7yrs ago so I always think what was I doing at that time & so on well I found my dad that day a little after 1pm well today at 1:05 my 2 yr old blurts out GRANDPA ABOUT 3 TIMES IN A ROW!! I am sure it was in no way just a strange coincidence!! She has never had a grandpa so she has never said that word before I looked up at the clock & about fell over I didnt mention it to my husband he might think I am a quack but it was SOOO wierd!!
Then went to my moms tonight heard all about the arguments of my brother & my niece & the ex are having about my nieces college lets just say someone has some high hope for that kid & its not the one paying for her educatioN!! Imagine that.
Then came home was called for a job for a company I only work for once in a blue moon & they have a job coming up pays $400 for 2 days I am so happy!!
We really can use that money right now!!
Then called my friend we were discussing what some people do for a living & out of the blue she goes well you are just a sahm to me out of the blue & was all kinds of rude to me & I never cut on her I really felt like saying what are you than ya know but I held it back!! She is just on welfare which I have always kept my mouth shut about. I just said well I am making as much as my husband & I work 4 days a week!! SO I am not just a sahm I also an eductator to my kids they are in school but I also work with them & help them along & I do everything around here while my husband helps with practically nothing!!
I just get so sick of people saying that like just cause I dont work 9-5 m-f I am nothing well sorry right now I am making more by doing this & working less so why would I switch just irritates me & I have no babysitting costs.
SO I am done I am not wasting my time with her anymore!! She makes me way to upset so that was my day a strange day at that!! I help out way to much to be treated like that!!
SO that is my day now tommorrow back to tball & I cant wait I am loving it so are the kids the whole family is really getting involved in it its great!!
Been a strange day!!!
May 11th, 2006 at 03:06 am
May 11th, 2006 at 04:02 am 1147320133
That is also upsetting about your friend. It does sound like you should step away a little bit and focus on your goals and your family. Keep up the good job!
May 11th, 2006 at 02:43 pm 1147358625
May 11th, 2006 at 03:45 pm 1147362308
As for your "friend"...it sounds like you're fed up and I don't blame you! I would be too!
May 11th, 2006 at 06:32 pm 1147372328
Thanks for all the thoughts about my dad & daughter it made me feel so much better I wanted to share with someone but its so wierd was afraid no one would believe me or think I was a quack!!
May 12th, 2006 at 03:35 am 1147404917
May 12th, 2006 at 03:51 am 1147405913
I worked ft & went to school ft when my oldest was a baby.
I am done with those days. I can go back to work ft & I can go back to school however, I cant go back to my babies being babies ever again!! So I plan to cherish these days with my kids some weeks I work 2 days others I work 4 never anymore than that so I can be with my kids & thier for everything!! So thanks so much it feels good to have people who understand the importance of being a mom.