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Been a strange day!!!

May 10th, 2006 at 08:06 pm

Well been a weird day today is the day my dad died 7yrs ago so I always think what was I doing at that time & so on well I found my dad that day a little after 1pm well today at 1:05 my 2 yr old blurts out GRANDPA ABOUT 3 TIMES IN A ROW!! I am sure it was in no way just a strange coincidence!! She has never had a grandpa so she has never said that word before I looked up at the clock & about fell over I didnt mention it to my husband he might think I am a quack but it was SOOO wierd!!

Then went to my moms tonight heard all about the arguments of my brother & my niece & the ex are having about my nieces college lets just say someone has some high hope for that kid & its not the one paying for her educatioN!! Imagine that.

Then came home was called for a job for a company I only work for once in a blue moon & they have a job coming up pays $400 for 2 days I am so happy!!
We really can use that money right now!!

Then called my friend we were discussing what some people do for a living & out of the blue she goes well you are just a sahm to me out of the blue & was all kinds of rude to me & I never cut on her I really felt like saying what are you than ya know but I held it back!! She is just on welfare which I have always kept my mouth shut about. I just said well I am making as much as my husband & I work 4 days a week!! SO I am not just a sahm I also an eductator to my kids they are in school but I also work with them & help them along & I do everything around here while my husband helps with practically nothing!!

I just get so sick of people saying that like just cause I dont work 9-5 m-f I am nothing well sorry right now I am making more by doing this & working less so why would I switch just irritates me & I have no babysitting costs.

SO I am done I am not wasting my time with her anymore!! She makes me way to upset so that was my day a strange day at that!! I help out way to much to be treated like that!!

SO that is my day now tommorrow back to tball & I cant wait I am loving it so are the kids the whole family is really getting involved in it its great!!

6 Responses to “Been a strange day!!!”

  1. boomeyers Says:

    Wow! That is weird! It certainly does not seem like a coincidence!
    That is also upsetting about your friend. It does sound like you should step away a little bit and focus on your goals and your family. Keep up the good job!

  2. Ima saver Says:

    Can i ask, what are you doing for a living?

  3. kashi Says:

    About the "Grandpa" thing - I'm sure it was not a coincidence. He was probably visiting you because he knew you'd be thinking about him just then. Sometimes I'm certain little kids and animals can see spirits. Be comforted by the fact that he is still watching over you! Things like that (and even weirder things) happen in my family all the time.

    As for your "friend"...it sounds like you're fed up and I don't blame you! I would be too!

  4. Snoopy2645 Says:

    Thanks for all the replies I work independently as a demonstrator, a mystery shopper, & take surveys this 2 day job is a survey job that is coming up. I also help my brother a little with our dads business. I also do lots of coupons to get alot of stuff free for our family. And I sale a little on ebay & have garage sales. So kinda a little of everything I would say my main income is coming from doing demos though. I love doing these jobs because I do what I need to when I need to not like a regular job ya know its very flexible with the kids!!

    Thanks for all the thoughts about my dad & daughter it made me feel so much better I wanted to share with someone but its so wierd was afraid no one would believe me or think I was a quack!!

  5. LuckyRobin Says:

    Even if you didn't do all that other stuff, there is nothing wrong with being "just" a SAHM. It is the most important job in the world. Finding a way to be a WAHM SAHM doubles your responsibilities. No one should ever call that "just" anything.

  6. Snoopy2645 Says:

    Thanks so much you are right I love being with my kids so much & its not the fact that they say well you are a sahm its how people will say it to me it gets old!! Like you said JUST guess that is the part I hate sooo much. But I dont need people like her in my life I am trying to be above that.

    I worked ft & went to school ft when my oldest was a baby.
    I am done with those days. I can go back to work ft & I can go back to school however, I cant go back to my babies being babies ever again!! So I plan to cherish these days with my kids some weeks I work 2 days others I work 4 never anymore than that so I can be with my kids & thier for everything!! So thanks so much it feels good to have people who understand the importance of being a mom.

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